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Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Consistent Trust

The center of our solar system, what our earth orbits, and the driving force of our climate, the sun has played a role in every life that has lived since the dawn of time. Every morning you can expect the sun to be there, it’s reliable. The sun has a similar attribute to relational communication; connections are gained by trust and trust is gained and maintained through reliability.

It’s very easy to understand what trust is. It’s easy because we can refer to those with whom we’ve trusted and those we haven’t. We’re able to understand trust because we know the feeling trust brings. Trust within a relationship is easily obtained when consistency is part of the affiliation. For the mother or father, the preparation of dinner instills a trust that food will be provided every night to the children. For the employee, the consistent, daily arrival provides a level of trust to the employer. For the friend, a deep, lasting relationship is formed when they’re there every time things get tough.

Consistency is an integral part in building trust within a social setting. Those with whom you’re unable to be consistent around will be less likely to follow or engage because of their lack of trust in you. They will have every right to doubt further actions from you. Consistency fosters reliability. As with the sun’s consistency, your reliability will forge stronger associations and build greater communication portals.

Your body reacts to consistency too; the effects of changing sleep patterns or altering your diet will drastically change your body’s composition and ability. The sun, your body, and every interpersonal relationship must be reliable to function within its atmosphere properly. These systems may only be reliable if founded on consistency.

To gain trust and increase your communication collateral you must be reliable, in part by being consistent.

Sunday, May 17, 2009

The Seed

A small seed can one day grow into something larger, something that can sustain life and provide nourishment. A collection of seeds can end poverty and unleash nutrients to starving nations. All of this from small, seemingly inconsequential little specks.

When a seed is planted in the ground it takes on attributes of its environment. Natural law allows the seed to gather needed nutrients from soil, water and the sun. This magnificent miracle is obtained by a collection of elements working together naturally to produce their greatest purpose. The seed’s purpose is to reproduce itself by growth. The little seed, if given opportunity can produce as intended. Some factors are paramount in the seed’s performance. We’re going to call our little seed Mr. McGillicuddy.

First, Mr. McGillicuddy must fall on fertile ground. He must have a home where he’ll be protected from predatory elements. The ground has much to do with Mr. McGillicuddy’s future. If he were to fall onto poor soil it would be difficult for him to live up to his little seed potential, difficult but not impossible. The better the soil, or environment, the better the probability for his growth.

Second, our tiny little Mr. McGillicuddy must receive water and sunlight. Little man-seed McGillicuddy needs to have outward influence that encourages growth. Dark places not receiving sunlight will make it very difficult, if not impossible, for our little seed-friend to grow. The area where McGillicuddy takes up residence must have a source of water. The water gives him the power to grow; it encourages him by pumping him with the soil’s valuable nutrients and provides him with much of his composition. Without the steady nourishment the water brings, Mr. Migillicuddy would never stand a chance to plump up and support the growth.

These simple factors produce monumental results. When our shy, reserved, little Mr. McGillicuddy received a good home, and nutrient rich influences, he was able to live up to his purpose and potential. Mr. McGillicuddy, our small seemingly insignificant speck was able to take on his natural course in producing nutrient rich, life sustaining purpose. Through his growth he was also able to produce as he was intended to.

Apply the lesson of this small seed to yourself and live up to your purpose and potential. Each of us will take on attributes of our environment; unlike the seed we can choose our environment. Seek out elements and an environment that will help you produce your greatest purpose. Every outward influence, whether good or bad, will impact your growth and ability in reaching your ultimate potential.